I’ve come to realize that I have a problem when it comes to relationships. I fall head over heels for the crazy girls that end up messing up the relationship, but I push myself away from the girls that fall head over heels for me! Why?
Well, at least you aren’t confused about what your problem is in relationships. Let me tell you, you’re not the only guy that feels this way. To be honest, I don’t even know if it is a problem. I think it’s a preference.
The crazies can be fun. (Especially the hot, sexy crazies, I know.) They can temporarily spice things up in your life. They’re spontaneous! And, sometimes they’re scary, but scary can be fun, right? Isn’t that why we watch horror movies? It gets our blood plumping. It adds energy and suspense to our otherwise straight, undramatic, non-running from chainsaws lives.
They keep you on your toes! She whispers in your ear and tells you to close your eyes. What comes next? A sweet, passionate kiss? A head-butt and a knee to your prized possession(s)? (The Lance Armstrongs of the world only have one. I must be fair.) So, will it be saliva, or a call to 9-1-1? You don’t have a clue. You just have to hold on tight to those reins, Cowboy!
We all have a little crazy in us. I guess it just depends on to what extent you’re willing to allow it to be a part of your life. I have some girlfriends that might be put in this category. I love them! They’re my girlfriends because they’re a frenzy of fireworks. I would date them, but I wouldn’t marry them. Of course, I’m not gay, so I wouldn’t really be doing either. But, if I were? Let’s continue and straighten this out.
To me, it seems that maybe you aren’t ready to be in a relationship, and that’s okay. You like these wild women, and I think you’re aware that for you, these girls aren’t going to make good girlfriends, nor will they make good wives. So, until you meet and fall in love with someone you deem normal, why don’t you just have fun with the crazy ones? They’re exciting for you. Plus, they make for wildly entertaining stories for the rest of us.
Believe me when I say that there are so many women out there who will treat you normally, but who still hold the qualities that will keep you excited, entertained and happy. (Just ask my husband. ;)) Don’t worry…when you’re finally ready to settle down and be with the woman that is truly right for you, she will still be around to fall head over heels. And you’ll know she’s the one because you’ll do the same.
However, don’t let this confuse you. If you fall head over heels because she Chuck Norris-ed you into that position, you’re back in the same boat. Those boats have leaks.